Sometimes its frustrating when our expectations are not fulfilled, we always end up thinking that...might be we are expecting a lot. Actually what I believe...that its not a bookish thought that "to whom we love the most, we expect from him/her the most" , its true in reality also.
Shaadi....finger crossed...marrying a guy who loves you like anything, he should know your needs before you say it from your mouth, he should compliment you everyday.....n many more lovable expectations :) A guy who works for you all day, he earns for your house, for your children and at the end of the day when he comes back home, you demand this love...compliment....uffff......give them a break.
First week after wedding is like heaven, he loves you like anything, his parents admire you, your cooking, your way of talking even if you say no for anything and if its a inter-caste wedding, they are curious to know everything about you...but eventually they all realize....she is not what we wanted...and the guy who always want that his choice should not be criticized by anybody, want you to change because its all about his respect (before marriage the girl had everything what he always wanted in his life partner).
I am not focusing on the point that girl obeys everything, she will fight, she will shout, she will scream at her betterhalf but Kisii ne sach hi kaha hai k bhagwan ne ladkiyon ko banaya hi pyar dene k liye hai... so she will never end up rejecting guy's demands about his parent's expectations.
Respecting each other's expectations is what life is all about. Love can never be replaced by anything except love. Enjoy kissing, cuddling and more but life is beyond that also. Understanding what the other person wants or expects at a particular moment is a great exercise.
My mind completely revolves around expectations. If I am expecting this so much and I am ready to fulfill his expectations (provided he does not expect me, not to expect anything), Am I doing something very kiddish or something which can not happen in real world.
Shaadi....finger crossed...marrying a guy who loves you like anything, he should know your needs before you say it from your mouth, he should compliment you everyday.....n many more lovable expectations :) A guy who works for you all day, he earns for your house, for your children and at the end of the day when he comes back home, you demand this love...compliment....uffff......give them a break.
First week after wedding is like heaven, he loves you like anything, his parents admire you, your cooking, your way of talking even if you say no for anything and if its a inter-caste wedding, they are curious to know everything about you...but eventually they all realize....she is not what we wanted...and the guy who always want that his choice should not be criticized by anybody, want you to change because its all about his respect (before marriage the girl had everything what he always wanted in his life partner).
I am not focusing on the point that girl obeys everything, she will fight, she will shout, she will scream at her betterhalf but Kisii ne sach hi kaha hai k bhagwan ne ladkiyon ko banaya hi pyar dene k liye hai... so she will never end up rejecting guy's demands about his parent's expectations.
Respecting each other's expectations is what life is all about. Love can never be replaced by anything except love. Enjoy kissing, cuddling and more but life is beyond that also. Understanding what the other person wants or expects at a particular moment is a great exercise.
My mind completely revolves around expectations. If I am expecting this so much and I am ready to fulfill his expectations (provided he does not expect me, not to expect anything), Am I doing something very kiddish or something which can not happen in real world.
